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ok here is the deal she is my husbands ex we have been married 1 year they been split 4 they have 1 kid she is a decent mom, problem is she calls husbands work 20 x a night swears there a emergency with kid and nothing is wrong she calls my parents house we have been to court my husband pays his support on time all the time we have paid everything yet she keeps talking us to court over and over she calls my cell all hours waking our child screaming at me i had a restraining order b/c she threatend to punch my in the tummy when i was prego. but the judge droped it last time we were in court with out asking me and the laywer we got was a dumb a@# he didnt do anything except fight the fact that we wouldnt pay her laywers fee, she rushes the kid to hospital all the time for nothing %26amp; he ends up being there 4 hours if i go we argue she called cps on me told them i beat the kid with a hair brush in the face i have tried the kill em with kindness it just doesnt work what to do

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Honestly you can only do one thing...bite your tongue. Let your husband do all the kid stuff...or when his kid is with her...he is with her. Dad doesnt have to be involved if not an emergency. YOu are married. she will have to deal with just that.

As I stated in other question....record everything. Document it all. When u go to court you will have a written record, and that helps.

Next, get a better lawyer. You may need to pay a little extra but, get a dick head. A lawyer who will not back down. It will eliminate some of the continuous court appearences.

It seems to me that your husband needs to step up and possibly straighten her out. I went through a similar thing..and when she gets a new man, things will improve...but I cant promise that.

Good luck, if you want to talk just let me know.

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did anyone tell you you either have a big spelling problem, or first few lines makes no sense

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Basically your hubby needs to court for his rights as a dad and not trying to sound mean but back off b/c she is using you as a scape goat. I understand you may love the kid and you two probably have a good relationship and mom may feel intimidated by that, your hubby does have rights as a father and he needs to exercise, if she leaves messages hold them when she takes the kid to the hospital and the Dr. says the kid is fine hold the discharge papers and take her azz to court and tell hubby to get custody of the child on the grounds that the mothers emotionally distraught and how she's stalking him as well as harressing you hold everything she does make a paper trail to prove your aligations and you'll rid yourself of her. Once she sees you guys mean business she'll straighten her act up or lose her child.

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it sounds like she needs to get a new man in her life. she may hate you if you two were cheating behind her back, were you? If not, then she loves her ex and will use anything possible to spend time with him, even if its at the hospital.

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First of all maybe he is talking to her behind your back. Second of all, I didn't read anything other than she is the only one at fault. Something just doesn't add up.